firm, upright, hard, candid nature charmed him — gaymommy: a relationship will not cure your...

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a relationship will not cure your issues, no matter how hard young adult books and films try to push that notion on us. if you have depression or bipolar or anxiety or whatever, getting into a relationship isn’t going to cure that or make it go away. person with illness + relationship = ill person in a relationship. please don’t put all of your focus on finding someone to fix you, focus on fixing yourself the right way.

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but also don't forget it's okay to have help from a partner too because people seem to be all about independence in these matters that it feels like ppl can shame you for needing help some people just need the support and can't just do it all on their own and that's fine too just don't assume it will go away suddenly and know you'd still have to work on it misc

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